- I don't have a girlfriend, and when I go to a men's esthetic as a distraction, the female manager of the company is the head of the company! The rules of employment prohibit side jobs ... Let alone working at a men's esthetic salon ... I asked for a rich service instead of keeping it a secret from the company. - I grasped my weakness and made the director a free woman who would come to my home and do anything if I called her.