I've been faintly aware of the lascivious and obscene gaze of the men in the neighborhood to my wife for a long time ... - Neighbor men who glance at the bulge of their breasts and buttocks with an insidious smile as if they are judging their usual greetings and taking out the trash. My wife, who went to the community center at a meeting of the neighborhood association, was subjected to obscene glances from both sides, but she was still doing her best to take the minutes of the meeting. Where my husband doesn't know ...